Relationships are created as one comes in being in the World, it is a connection between people or anything. In the BIBLE we see GOD has continued to respect nature including the creation of Adam. We begin to count friends and call it relationship which always culminate into marriage.
MARRIAGE is a secret and covenant odeyed by GOD himself. God says 1+ 1 = 1 and not two and he says, a man + a woman are joined into one flesh and not two. The only standing relationship is the one that is known to God. Character is the basis of what we are today, Men are always Ego.
Obedience contains these two;
Ask yourself whether what you wish to do conforms with GOD.
Before speaking anything, ask yourself if it will be a blessing to the Brethren
Relationships are very complicated and always confusing ( Deuteronomy 29:29)
Five Foundation for God's relationships
- We need to exercise true Love. Love is a deep affection or inner feeling about another person, true love turns into a magnet and attract people. As believers, we have no option about Love, it is not optional but a command.
2.Trust in God in everything
-There are moments especially difficult times where people or non-believers are forced to doubt about the God's presence. 1 Thessalonian 5 : 13, Daniel 3 : 17 -18
-It is not everything that you see and desire will come into you but even in such tense situation GOD will not leave you.
-Partnership helps us to go closer and closer to GOD.
3.One relating to Christ
Luke 2: 46-47
- we are reminded to run away from temptations,
- how often do we pray, God does not do anything for us apart from answering our prayers. Remember God asked Adam; ADAM! What have you done? The question was directed to Adam and not Eve because Men carry responsibilities, they are protectors of their families and prophets.
4.What makes the relationship solid?
-...for I know the thoughts I think towards you, to give you honor, to give you glory, says the LORD.
5.In Due Seasons
everything that were created by God in those six days were good. Ecclesiastics 3:11...he has made everything beautiful in his time, he sets time for that beauty in his time.
- Beauty can hate you, God has made everything beauty, beware of beauty.
-but it is more dangerous than dynamite or nuclear,it has killed so much than any other weapon on the earth discovered so far.
The Bible says that, He who finds a WIFE looks for a good thing, it is beautiful to have a woman ( A Wife)
it has got so many repucations,
-You do not know where she comes from, how many she has been with, you do not even know what she carries! In fact you know nothing.
Serous Social Implications
-It can ruin you, it can destroy your history
-Unwanted or unplanned children
- It gives you guilty
-It stops you from what you would have achieved.
-Guilty makes it difficult for you to pray
-Malack 2:13 … and this you have done again, covering the alter of the God with tears...
NOTE: The wife of your youth is the that Wife that the God has given you in your time.
Before you marry,God demands an account of your past because he is going to give you a wife who will be a channel to success through God himself. Remember James 1: 14-18...but everyman is tempted when he is....
-every good and perfect gift comes from the LORD above.
How to Avoid?
James 1:2 ...count it all joy...
Remember this, the grass in the side of the fence looks much greener than the ones you have... beware!
Also, Patience is the only thing that is going to help you. Galatians 5:22
Finally Brethren, AVOID SIN TO ACHIEVE WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN LOOKING FORWARD TO ACHIEVE.
Elli wa Mshana